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Holly's avatar

You got it out on the page Jane. Allow yourself to feel how it is you feel. There are no shoulds here. Scream, swear, be annoyed..........let it pass.

Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for you. Brighter times ahead....

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving, Holly to you and your family!

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Jane Deegan's avatar

We can have a sulky day. We all had dinner together the 3 of us and our pets. That was a blessing

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Hanna Keiner (she/her)'s avatar

🫶 this made me smile; more than any positive “25 things I’m grateful for” post ever could. That probably wasn’t your intention (or was it?) but I feel you. I’ve been ranting about all sorts of small / big things this morning, too.

Yes, there’s room for both.

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks so much. I ranted last night and almost didn't post, but I decided to. Holidays aren't always perfect and it's life sometimes. Thanks so much for commenting and I'm glad it made you smile. I hope your day got better.

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Jennifer Ward Dudley's avatar

Wowzer ! Primal scream 😱. This must be a giant relief. I think it might be time for you to consider boxing lessons or yoga. 😆😆. Happy holidays

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Lol! Well my upside down yoga is helping me keep my sanity most days, Jennifer. Kick boxing? There's a thought

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mitch's avatar

Jane , I feel the same way you do , alone and sick on Thanksgiving .I wish i could give you great advice , but letting it all out is a great start . Hugs and peace , Enojoy thanksgiving like i will try to do the best we can /

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David Angel's avatar

Happy Thanksgiving anyway!

Suggestion - make a dog's day (or a kitty's) and I promise (s)he will make yours. I learn more from my dog about gratitude and living in the moment than from all the self-help books on the planet.

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks so much David. I got to spend time with a dog and 2 cats I pet sat for today and then my own. They brighten my day. My own small family just the 3 of us and pets under our roof is the best gift. Thanks so much for stopping by to comment. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family

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Lori K's avatar

I feel ya. We’re at the tail end of it, still coughing. 🙏

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Oh no, Lori :(. It sucks! I hope you all are feeling better and continue to heal. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!

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Lori K's avatar

Same to you my friend!

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Nick Richards's avatar

Happy Freaking Thanksgiving to you! 😡

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Jane Deegan's avatar

LOL!!! Bah Humbug. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family Nick!

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Nancy A's avatar

Hugs! 💞💞💞💞💞

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks so much, Nancy!

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Wendy Martin's avatar

Happy sulkgiving. I’ll share my sulking with you.

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Sulksgiving!! I love it. Had a sulkfest here lol I hope your day is getting better. Share a virtual pumkin pie with me

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Mary Pierce's avatar

Love it. Yes, both. Peace to you on this day. 🙏

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks so much, Mary! I appreciate it! Sending peace to you and your family too. Thanks for stopping by

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Jane Deegan's avatar

Thanks, Mitch. I have the two people I love the most in the whole world with me today. I'm so thankful for my son, husband and pets. So sorry you are going through this, holidays are so difficult alone espcially

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